tfp Collective

Relational Coaching

CONDITIONSOF PARTICIPATION

Participation here is not governed by rules or agreements. It is shaped by what becomes possible or impossible in interaction.

This work can proceed only while:

no one is positioned as authority, rescuer, or guide

uncertainty can be tolerated without urgency for resolution

power relations are acknowledged as both cooperative and competitive

rhetorical practices remain open to exploration rather than persuasion

When these conditions degrade, the work stops.

Refusal

Refusal is not corrective action or enforcement. It is recognition that the interaction can no longer support this kind of participation.

There are no appeals and no explanations beyond this.

Relational Coaching helps you slow down so that patterns become visible; your role in reproducing them becomes clear; and those familiar responses lose their inevitability.